it has happened many times now, i send a comm message to someone and forget their name, then days later i find random replies on my own comm, i think their needs to be a way to see your message to them or be linked to their ship (without being able to attack them)

A Comm archive, (similar to that of legion chat) would be a good idea for player to player chatter, it could keep track of who has sent you comm messages (although you can just look on your ship) and would keep track of who you have sent comms to. Maybe have a new section on the "comms" tab of your ship that you can go to in order to see sent messages.